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Originally Posted by Wylie's Mom  I would like to ask a favor of everyone as I'm learning here and via PM that perhaps some members really do not know what is considered "inappropriate"....let's post examples of what we think is an inappropriate way of saying things. Let's not argue whether anyone is right or wrong....just post whatever you think, personally. Let's see the variety we get....
For me it's stuff like:
-You're ridiculous
-You're a bully
-What you posted is ridiculous
-You should be ashamed of yourself!
-You should not even own an animal!
-What you're doing is horrible.
-You need to work on your comprehension skills.
-Maybe you should go back and read the thread as you clearly haven't!
-Maybe you should leave this thread if you don't like it.
-You're rude.
-You're just wrong.
-You clearly don't care about this dog.
-You should not be breeding in the first place.
-You should work on your grammar.
-I'm putting you on ignore. |
I've seen all of these said on this forum. A couple of them made me cringe when I read them. Those are wounding words, not words that lead to trying to understanding anothers views. All those words do is create defensiveness and animosity between members.
I may be alone on this but the thing I see on the forum that tends to create derailed threads is repetitiveness directed at one person. If a poster says something that another disagrees with or needs clarification on it starts with the two posters, then there are two, then three, and sometimes four members saying essentially the same thing over and over when the issue was already being addressed by the first poster...