Your poor girl! I agree, it would be ideal to figure out what ingredient(s) your pup is reacting to.
What kind of eye reaction does she have? My boys are sensitive to heavily scented grooming products. When I used Chris Christensen Day to Day, their eyes were very watery and itchy, and they acted depressed. Max suffered corneal ulcers that were primarily environmental factor related, but I am still really careful with his eyes. I use only SPA facial cleanser on his head and Vellus conditioner on his beard. Vellus shampoo and conditioner are very mild (they have a $25 sampler pack --dilute products).
http://www.vellus.com/petprod.htm
I also have to be careful to use lukewarm water on his head, nothing too hot or cold.
"Coat Handlers" is another very mild, not heavily scented line of products.