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Originally Posted by mimimomo

There seems to be a growing epidemic of people calling some YT members 'cliquey'...just bc some of us think differently & have opposing beliefs doesn't make us 'mean, judgemental, snarky, old timers that alienate new comers' group. Just like some of you who have people behind the scenes PM'ing you & supporting you, wouldn't that also make you all a 'cliquey' group of your own? I've witnessed this b4 here not too long ago, it's like dejavu, it's really sad that this keeps happening!

This is what public forums are about, opinions will come from all kinds of personal experiences & beliefs. Take what you like & leave the rest. Learn what you will & spread the knowledge. I see this going on all the time, some people telling others how things should be done, pointing fingers, being judgemental themselves...I don't see any snarkyness going on here except the person saying there is. If someone is out of line, a Mod or even friends/ other members will step in. Maybe if you all put down your judgemental thinking towards the 'cliquey' members, maybe we'll all get along...or so I like to think & hope.

I also think it's absurd to compare a human's pregnancy to a dog's! We HAVE choices (it's called free will), they DO NOT! WE make the choices for them!

BTW, Gemy is a very respected member here, she's truly a valuable asset to this community, we are so lucky to have her. Maybe you all should spend your time looking through some of Gemy's posts. It's full of impressive info, it'll blow your mind!

totally agree, new people and LOL even some old timers should take the time to read more posts, especially of those they are inclined to criticize