Thank you so much for the post.. I am so scared to hurt her cause she is my Step granddaughter.. I have been in this family for almost 20 years now.. Between my husband and I we have 21 grandchildren... 3 great.. The other grandchildren do fine with the furbabies. The parents make them mind.. its just her. She says they are all boy and they should act like boys. Really we have tried to go to her house an there isn't no place to sit because of toys an "stuff" all over the house.. I mean it.. its bad.. Her 42 inch tv got broke because the 6 year old threw a big Tonka truck at it.. pretending it was four wheeling he said.. well they have no Tv now.. We were there last week and I got hit in the head with a foot ball.. IN THE HOUSE. It broke my glasses an they cut my nose and my eye.. the boys thought it was funny.. well The Mother said they were just playing.. Sheeesh she said.. they were just playing.. why was I all upset.. so I just sat there .. My husband finally said .. the football should be thrown out side.. not inside.. of course this made her mad again. I don't want to make her mad and cause trouble in the family even though we have been married almost 20 years. My husbands kids are close to His xwife and I see her at family gathering sometimes.. the kids ignore me and all over her.. I let it be..there is jealousy among the kids ..I thank God for my husband every day.. he has been so good to me and my son..I just dont want to cause trouble among the STEP Kids and such.So far its been a great family. But Like I said.. My Furkids are like my kids to me..I want them to be happy and love them with what time they have here on earth.. I have had all of them since they were 12 weeks old.. Libby is 10, Bobo is almost 9, Pearl is 4. So I want them to have a good life while they live on this early.. do you blame me? |