[BrendaS54]

I don't know what to do, any suggestions is appreciated.
When my Step-granddaughter comes over with her two boys to visit I dread it.. I am sorry to say but, My furbabies are stressed an get dirrahea an shake after she leaves.. She does not control her boys at all.. She does not reprimand them at all.. These boys are ALL Boys! They throw anything they can get their hands on.. scream.. they grab the dogs and drag them.. hits them.. smacks them.. kicks them.. you name it.. I have gently take their hands an get in front of them and get down to their size and explain to them that they are hurting them and not to do this. They are bigger an they are little an they don't know how to play like they want to play. These boys are 6 years old an 4 years old. My husband has even tried to talk to them without being a grouch old man, as his granddaughter calls him.. lol... I love her dearly.. I mean it.. she loves me too.. says I am more a grandma than any other grandma.. lol.. I love to see the grandkids but I don't want my furbabies sick after they leave.. She finally today screamed at me and said "Brenda (which she usually calls me Grandma) that hurt my feelings already, well she said.. If you want us to come and see you then you put the dogs up in the other room or we just won't come here anymore.. Well big mouth me.. said I shouldn't have to put them somewhere else.. This is Bobo, Libby, & Pearls' home and they shouldn't have to leave it.. My husband backed me up and this made her madder! she left before we even ate Thanksgiving dinner.. she just got their coats on and left.. without saying goodbye or anything.. I feel so bad now.. I trully do.. She still hasn't called or anything. Her mother said don't worry about it cause she does the same to her when she comes over.. but she has cats.. 4 of them. But I do worry about it. We but the dogs in our bedroom one time when she came over but the boys still went up and let them out.. she wouldn't even tell the boys not to go up to the bedroom. She just lets them run all over and destroy everything. Her house is always a mess. I just am torn now what to do.. am I a mean Grandma now? I love my Furbabies too much to let them go thru this again.

Sorry this is so long..


I forgot to add.. YEs Bobo and Libby both has Snapped at The 4 year old.. They had never done t his before.. she was livid.. That was the time I put them up in the bedroom.. but the boys still would let them out.. the furbabies cried when they were up there alone.. they are used to sleeping with us .. the didnt understand..