My heart goes out to you on the sad loss of your Dad. Know that your Dad would not have wanted you to drive in the windy conditions. The grief counselor I went to after losing my husband last year always said "be kind to yourself". The hospice nurse said the same thing Sandy said. My son and daughter were there all day the day my husband passed. I sent them home in the early evening and just before I was leaving later that night Ken passed away. I think he didn't want the kids there but wanted me there. He knew I would have been upset if I hadn't been there. Take card of yourself and let others help. Hugs |