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Originally Posted by bryce87i  For the most part you seem fine, but it was still rude to call me a failure and say it was no accident. Because not only did I make sure they were kept apart nearly the whole day, but I also made sure she always had a diaper on, which I now understand isn't the best way to avoid pregnancy, but it certainly helped during every single other heat, until this one when the boy slipped out of the room at 4am when I got up for work, and paired up with her in the middle of the night after her diaper somehow had fallen off. So I'm tired of those who say it was no accident, or that I didn't take precautions, because I did. Accidents do happen people - get over it, move on, and perhaps stop feeding the drama by focusing on the past, and instead, start helping with the present and future. |
Once more, diapers do not prevent pregnancy. Many a dog has tied WITH A DIAPER ON! Like I said before, she may has well been wearing only a t-shirt, that is just as effective at preventing a tie as a diaper is. Her wiggling out of it made no difference, she can tie with the diaper on anyway. You were very, very
lucky that she didn't get pregnant in previous heats.
If you did not intend for her to get pregnant and she did anyway, someone or something failed. Success = no pregnancy, and since pregnancy wasn't prevented there was a failure. You can't blame it on the dogs, they were just doing what dogs do. It was up to you to control the situation, not the dogs or some random set of circumstances. YOU are the human, the only one in the mix that could take precautions to prevent what she had to go through. I don't know why you can't admit that, and it clearly is frustrating many people here that you put the blame somewhere else, like on a diaper that, even if it had remained on, wouldn't have prevented a tie anyway.