Thanks for your replies, and thanks Villette i have posted the thread in the "training" section... good idea

I really hope someone can give us advice because what i witnessed this morning was rather horrible, i dont know what i would do in that situation. I have asked her to keep the dogs seperated when she leaves the house so she cant attack the small girl when there is no one there to help her!
The jealousy issues they have among each other concerns me too, the Chow mix is 8 years old and i have noticed in the past that he doesnt appreciate puppies. I remember when my girls were tiny babies she asked me to bring them to her house so all the pups could have a "play hour" well i didnt last for longer then 30min. because i saw the Chow mix paw MY babies

my friend assured me that he wont do anything to them because he did it to her puppies too, but i didnt want to take the chance (call me chicken) lol