sounds like she gets anxious when your wife goes out. I think you need to work on keeping her calm. yorkietalkjilly has a whole scenario you can go through to train your dog not to be nervous when you leave. Its a process you wife will have to do.
If your home when your wife goes out stay with her, tether her to you so you can watch her. If you see her starting to go say "uh uh" pick her up and bring her outside.
I wouldn't go the diaper route yet. |