[Claire]

I am at a stand still as to what to do with my x-husbands things. When he left, he only took a suitcase full of clothes with him. I had boxes upon boxes of his things. His family took a good chunk of it, but I still have some things left over. What should I do with it? We had a child together, she is 9 months old, should I save things for her? Should I pawn his wedding ring or keep it? Should I burn the letters/cards that he saved???? AAAAAHHHHHHH!!!!!! I just don't know what to do.
I'm sure that ya'll think I am crazy, this should not be a hard decision, but right now, we don't even know if he is dead or alive, last time anyone heard from him was over 3 months ago, he was homeless, strung out on drugs, living on the streets in Kansas, he was doing REAL BAD. She may NEVER get to see her daddy ever again. I would feel bad for her if she did not get to have some things of her fathers but in saying that, I never want her to know what type of man her father became.... I just don't know what to do! I have 3 picture books full of pictures of him for her to have when she starts asking about him. Should that be enough, just pictures, or should I save more things of his for her to have??
Really, in all honesty, if you were in my shoes, what would you do?
Any feedback would be GREATLY apreciated!