[yorkiemini]

I often ask my patients who are in similar situations that you depict, to read
DITCH THAT JERK by Pamela Jayne.
You might want to read it to help you present this guy in a different light.
You can probably get it at the library if you don't want to purchase it.
It really shows women how to assess their partners and relationships for potential abuse. It is easy to read - not weighed down with research and such.

Best wishes to you and your daughter!