I wish I had suggestions... just a similar situation with stepson. 19, was going to go to the military, then got a gf.... he didn't go, and he floated around doing nothing much for a year because he didn't want to leave her. Of course, she cheated on him, he on her, and they split up finally just last week.... suddenly things are getting more clear to him. Pray they break up is all I can say! Ignorant kids! haha I was one until I was 28, let my bf of 10 years hold me back.... then we broke up for good... and my eyes opened and I got my own place, got my degree, and moved on to bigger & better! Some need to learn the HARD way. (((HUGS))) to you! You are going to need it!
