I sure feel for you and your daughter!!! It is so hard being a parent now that I'm one, and I know that I had put myself in situations that were not in my best interest years ago. It must be hard for your daughter to have such an overpowering bf over her head and on her shoulder with every step she takes. It certainly isn't healthy for her. Some mistaken this for love
What a shame! For me I just had to get away to see the light. I'm sure that you already do this, but please love your daughter a lot, with hopefully time spent with her if possible, in between her jobs and what ever you have on your plate. Perhaps a movie or playing a simple card game? These sound like useless things to do but I feel that those times are sooo important and time spent is remembered more than most gifts! Just a thought - how about a pros and cons list for her to do on what life can bring and what life is like with bf already? Seems simple I know, but perhaps she might read between the lines on this list??? You and your daughter are in my thoughts BIG time and hope for a miracle here; that she sees the light!!