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Originally Posted by ytsirk27  Well I told him we need a long break possibly a forever break because Im not happy and dont feel any love for him...you know what he said???"yes you do baby, we can work on it, theres just alot of stress!!!" : . I pointed out it's been this way for along time and he says "well, we'll work on it and I dont want to talk about it" and goes out to the damn garage!! QUOTE]
He's avoiding the situation, not taking sides, but it'd probably be the LAST conversation I wanted to have were it me too. That said if you want out of limbo land, you're going to have to make that tough decision....work on it and do, or make the necessary arrangements. Personally I'd be the one moving out. I think (and this is only my opinion....so it may stink  ) you prefer for him to move out, because then it doesn't require you to make a decision more or less. You're gonna have to do as they say.....poop or get off the pot.
Many of us have "been there done that"....unfortunately all the advice in the world can't make the decisions (nor the necessary arrangements) for you, hard as they may be.
Good luck, sweetie, and please don't read my post as sounding mean...cause I really didn't mean it that way  |
I understand what your saying but I paid for this house and i have 2 kids and all their stuff that i gotta get settled. It easier for him to take his clothes right now and just go until I figure out if im keeping this house or not. I am not trying to be difficult or hateful but he has somewhere to go and I dont besides having to pay the payment on this house pretty much since we have had it I, yes me, should beable to stay in it until i figure out what im doing. not only besides that, I workl out of my house doing daycare if i leave now...so does my income!