Sherrie I am so sorry to read about the devastating accident. Take a deep breath and say accident to yourself. You did not fail at anything you are trying to hard to be perfect, perfect for your father and for your girls. God did not make us perfect. We can try our very best, try to figure out all the possible outcomes of our actions but we cannot foretell the future. We cannot tell when a happy moment can go tragically wrong. YOU DID NOTHING WRONG. All your actions were reasonable. I would have crated the kids like that I do the same with Buster. God bless your poor father he did not realize what he was doing. Our babies are such powerful squirmers they can jump out of your arms in a split second. I am dealing with my mother and I know how hard is is to keep track of everything that is going on. We had a near miss with Buster, and I have read many sad stories of similar ACCIDENTS.
Nothing you did was dangerous or irresponsible what happened was an accident that happened in a split second. I honestly believe the most loving thing you could do would be to keep Cassie. Her heart would be broken with out you and I honestly don't think her spirit would keep her going with anyone else but you. So sad for you, your Dad, Cassie and Muffin. You are a loving person please know that we love and support you.
__________________ Carolyn  Buster Brown  
"The happiest people don't have the best of everything, they just make the best of everything." |