You know, I try really hard to be patient but sometimes people say things that I cannot leave unaddressed.
You lost one dog and then got another when you knew you had no money. Nothing unforseen about it....you knew if this one got sick you would not have money. Not saying you are bad.....nothing like that at all. Just calling it like it is. That is me and how I do things...if you were a friend or even my child I would say it the same way. It is what it is.
You say that someone (I am assuming me) put you down? No...I simply asked you to think about solutions rather than burying yourself more than you already have. I have had others act this way with me. Just because I say things in whatever way I say them, is not calling the person anything. I get a bit tired of people putting thoughts into my brain. I was merely trying to help you see that you need to find a way to handle such emergencies. But..you still want to hang on to those feelings about what I said and how I made you feel...I made you feel nothing...you feel it for whatever reason you feel it. Own it and stop blaming me for it. |