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Originally Posted by Sherry Lynn Monica, you are an angel!  |
LOL,,,,, I have my moments. But thank you!
Well it went ok this weekend. It took Cherish to warm up to her mother but after that she was really good. Now the problem,,,, This is what I see. She is angry and she does not understand why her mommy can't be with her. First of all we had a really tough time potty training her and now that we got it down, she goes and sees her mother, she messing up. It's like she doesn't care. Since it was a 4 hour trip, I had a pull up on her and even with that she did well. I stopped 2 times for potty breaks there and back. But while we were there she went in her pull up. I was so upset with her. My mom had taken her before we got to the meeting place. And I kept asking her if she had to go every so often. I told my sister to be asking her too. But she went anyway in her pull up. She also gave my sister a hard time when it came time to say bye. Cherish kept asking if her mommy can come with us. I know it was hard for my sister and I can see her eyes getting watery. She tried to hug and kiss Cherish and Cherish gave her a dirty look and did not want to even look at her went it was time to go. And when we got to the car Cherish was really quite. It wasn't till we were like half way home she starting talking. She was acting like she was talking to Des (my daughter) and she went on and on about seeing her mommy and that her mommy hates her. Me and my mom just looked at each other and just cried. She thinks her mommy hates her. We tried to tell her that her mommy loves her and she will be coming home real soon. I am making an appointment with her doctor to see what she thinks we should do.
Yesterday she wet 2 times in her panties. I'm trying to be understanding here but after the second time, I was very upset with her and did swat her butt.
I FEEL REALLY BAD! I know there's something going on in her head and I need to be more understanding with her. We are having a better day today. She's gone potty by herself 3 times today and we haven't had any accidents.
My husband was talking to her last night and she told him that she went to go see her mommy and she sat on her lap. There was no talk of hate or bad things at all. And today she was talking to her mommy (acting) and she was telling her that she misses her and that she is going to buy her a candy when she sees comes to see her. We are planning to go see my sister more and I'm hoping that if Cherish sees her more often she wont think her mommy hates her. This is so hard and I know Debbie sees what her daguhter is going through. And I hope and pray that she does right by this little girl and most all herself and makes a go of a happy drug free life for her and her daughter.
Thank you all for listening. This has been tought on all of us and it really helps to let it all out. Thank you all for your kind words! I means alot!