[cheryl000]

Originally Posted by ytsirk27

Well I told him we need a long break possibly a forever break because Im not happy and dont feel any love for him...you know what he said???"yes you do baby, we can work on it, theres just alot of stress!!!" . I pointed out it's been this way for along time and he says "well, we'll work on it and I dont want to talk about it" and goes out to the damn garage!!

I am proud of you for finally telling him. But I think it was very disrespectful of him to belittle you and walk into the garage without talking about it. You need to express everything on your mind. If you have to do that by taking the kids to the babysitter, having a friend over for backup, writting a letter, or even a phone call you do what you have to do. He needs to know that you're serious. If things get ugly or if he won't leave then you might have to call the police. Everyday you are getting more and more angry that you're being held there. I remember hating my ex for that same reason, I didn't want to be with him anymore and he kept saying he wanted to kill himself. He will say anything to try to hold onto you. Stick to your guns and this time don't go back until YOU are sure you want to. It will be very hard on everyone to keep doing this. Good luck