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Originally Posted by ytsirk27 DC..is daycare.  My problem is I dont want to work on it ...i just want him gone... |
ah... daycare, got it.
i would recommend that you speak to a counselor, not with him, but on your own to be sure you are absolutely certain about not wanting to work on it anymore, and not just saying that now because you're totally frustrated with him.
if you are absolutely certain, then talk to a legal advisor and start the process of a legal separation and get information regarding your options if a divorce were to proceed. imho, it's best to start the process now, while you are still sane and reasonable, rather than to wait until the both of you are frustrated and angry at each other beyond the desire to be civil.
it's also good for you to understand your legal options and financial obligations. if you are the primary breadwinner, unless you had a prenup, you may have to pay him alimony. etc etc.