That's a good point Irene....but I've noticed lately what one person may see as rude - another may see as enlightening.....I can't count how many times I've seen someone make a statement that makes SENSE yet they get jumped on ....I think it's all in the delivery of how we post...
but like I said...IF I came here to ask questions - I'd WANT and welcome all replies from breeders WITH Experience - both positive or negative... because we learn from them.
If everyone posted nothing but sweetness.. and didn't post about the 'touchy' aspects ...or only posted what they thought people want to hear - then how would these 'new to breeding' people ever learn all aspects of breeding ?
Breeding has it's upside and downside and I think it's important for people to know ALL that's involved in order for them to become a good breeder...and if that means sometimes a post may not be what they WANT to hear - it could be something they NEED to hear. |