I get it and it is of concern for sure. So what could you say in that situation, without inflaming the whole post? ...... ...... .......
You could for example post back and simply say; Look OP my style is direct kind of like a torpadeo
My years of experience and knowledge of this particular XYorZ tells me this.....
Quite frankly you need to see the vet, or a specialist to wade through a/b/c.
And in my mind, that is the best advice I can offer you, despite what others are posting.
I wish you and your dog well.
There is a time to step back, and a time to say, a time to listen, and a time to give.
None of us can control what others' say how-ever in-correct it could or eve n is.
All we can control (as you well know) is our responses.