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Originally Posted by ladyjane  I agree with it all....I really do. What I DO find disturbing and not addressed (in my mind) is the issue of telling the OP of a thread that people are mean and trying to make that person think that the person calling others mean is being nice and giving good advice. Not sure I am making sense? I am not so upset about people not liking my style so much as I am upset that they are giving bad advice to people that could potentially harm a pup while saying that the rest of us who are giving the correct advice are mean. I just think that they should give their advice and not trash others for their advice. That goes beyond critiquing the style of a post. |
I get it and it is of concern for sure. So what could you say in that situation, without inflaming the whole post? ...... ...... .......
You could for example post back and simply say; Look OP my style is direct kind of like a torpadeo
My years of experience and knowledge of this particular XYorZ tells me this.....
Quite frankly you need to see the vet, or a specialist to wade through a/b/c.
And in my mind, that is the best advice I can offer you, despite what others are posting.
I wish you and your dog well.
There is a time to step back, and a time to say, a time to listen, and a time to give.
None of us can control what others' say how-ever in-correct it could or eve n is.
All we can control (as you well know) is our responses.