I'm not married, so I don't know if my opinion will even count but I thought I would give my 2 cents anyway. I think that it's great that you want to think about your kids. I don't really believe in divorce (unless it's abuse/cheating) but I think that by him making you feel guilty and telling you he will kill himself, he is emotionally abusing you. I agree with Olivia, DON'T TOLERATE THAT KIND OF BEHAVIOR. Your kids already know what's going on and if you are unhappy, so are they! I would keep on trying counseling. There is no magic answer, I know you want there to be but there isn't. You need set your foot down and not make excuses for him. He needs to listen to you, period. |