[centralnewyorki]

Originally Posted by ytsirk27

"you won't ever leave me..I wont allow it"

My response would be "watch me!" Tell him to shape up or ship out. If you don't need his income and he's going to act cocky rather than work on the relationship, then you are wasting your time being with him. Inform him that he's not the only fish in the sea and if he doesn't want to make you happy, you'll find someone who will. I would have no tolerance for that attitude!