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Originally Posted by Ponyup I've been in relationships with crappy guys and even though he is not physically abusing you he is emotionally abusing you. I went with a guy (my first love) and I told him private things I never told anyone and when I went away to college he would use these things to upset me and get me to come home. Your husband sounds like this he sounds very selfish and almost like a child throwing a tantrum. Do not let him make you feel guilty or manipulate you. He is so terrified of losing you he is willing to do anything or say anything to make you stay. And his reasoning behind making you stay is not because he loves you because if he truely loved you he would want you to be happy. He wants you to stay and take care of him it sounds like he has the life if you're the bread winner and you take care of the kids. This is a hard situation because you would hate for your husband to do something aweful. I would suggest you go to conseling by yourself and get some pointers on how to handle your husband. |
He does love me. Theres absolutely no doubt about that. His words exactly" If you move to another town i will have to move there too because I love you and the kids so much". and the topper is "you won't ever leave me..I wont allow it" and "You'll have to burn me out like a cockroach". He's very difficult. He makes me feel so damn bad and guilty.
