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Originally Posted by ytsirk27 I have told him and he informs me that cannot happen and its stupid!!!!!!!  |
I'm sorry to hear your going through this.
But no matter who it is don't let anyone tell you what you can and can not do. Your in charge of your own life and your own happiness.
Yes you have kids and that puts you in a bit more of a difficult place but don't let that be your excuse to keep yourself in an unhealthy relationship. Also if your that unhappy then your kids probably feel it and are effected by it more than you know or think.
I think counselling is a good idea but if your at the end of the road with your husband and you have already made your mind up than i don't know how much counseling would help?!
I know how scary the thought of being on your own and having to deal with daily life on your own is. I was extremely pampered as a kid/teen and I basically went from my parents hands to my BF's hands so I haven't had to do much on my own and it scares the crap out of me sometimes thinking what would happen if I ever split up with my BF and if I'd ever find anyone else.
Just remember you CAN make it on your own if that is what it comes down to and you owe it to yourself to be happy.
I hope everything works out, whatever you decide and we are all here for you
