I have been there. The most important thing in any marriage is that you communicate. You have to tell the other person how you really feel. Even if it's something that they may not want to hear. Then get their input on the situation. I think when you said your vows it was for better or worse. This is possibly your worst. And it may work out, it may not. But IMO it would be sad to just walk away after being together for so long. Without giving it a try. Good luck with whatever decision you make. And this is just my opinion, I don't know the story behind this.
__________________ Heather & Max  - In honor of my sweet Ayden! |