One of my friends went through this several years ago and went to marriage counseling. She said the thing that really turned her around was when the counselor asked her to list all the traits and qualities her 'perfect man' (I know-oxymoron!) would have. After making the list, she said she realized her husband possessed all of the qualities on her list. She made up her mind to work things out and never looked back.
Sometimes it helps when you see things in black and white. Maybe try making a list of the pros and cons to see which has more weight.
Best of luck. |