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Originally Posted by Chelsey No No dont be so hard on youself and DONT set yourself on a guilt trip, something obviously started this off for you to feel this way, do you know where it comes from?
Men usually think "oh theres nothing wrong" most of the time they just DONT GET IT!
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10.5 years. LOTS of ups and downs. He is happy...that's not an issue. It's me..my heart isnt here. The reason why I havent left is because of the kids, the thought that I cant take care of us (which i know ican) and nobody else will ever want me... Our history is sooooo messed up and just started getting decent about 3 yrs ago..but its still not here......does anybody undertand what I mean??
He also makes me feel like the worst mom in the world when i tell him we need a break...