I lost touch with one of my best friends 6 years ago.
We'd both just had babys and had a minor disagreement about something trivial.
We both thought the other would phone 1st so we both left it at that!!!!!!!!!
Can you believe that!!! How stupid!!!
So we haven't seen or spoken to each other in 6 years!
Big big mistake that i would never make again.
She has now moved country and has another child and 1 on the way.
I met up with her husband (he and my hubby friends from school) at the weekend as he was over to England for few days.
I have talked to him and as him and my hubby says we were both so stupid and we have wasted 6 years of our lifes not seeing or speaking to each other.
I have thought about her week in week out, she was a big part of my life not a day went past when we didn't speak or see each other so why has it taken this long to realise thats life too short.
I am now in the process of making plans to go visit her and her family this year.
I am wasting no more time, life is too short and i am grateful for this second chance.
I sopose what i'm trying to say is don't leave it another month.... make sure you don't lose contact with someone just because your expecting them to make contact 1st. Don't wait it might cost you 6 years like it did me!!! |