She wrote me back! Already! It was a pretty long one too explaining everything!
I feel sooooooo much better! Still not "enough" info...LOL...but of course it never will be with us living so far away from each other.
Thank you ALL so much for taking time to give me advice! Every reply on here was so special to read and it really made me feel better.
You guys are JUST the comfort I needed today! THANK YOU times 1,000!