OUCH ! Some of us feel compelled to teach, and share what me have learned. Not every one can write well. Some people are very blunt and snap out questions and advice like a warrior slashing a sword. That bluntness feels accusatory, and like an attack, almost like a physical slap. My advice is ignore that post and keep asking your questions. Most of us really do want to help, but not all of can communicate kindly. All of us were new at some point, it is ok to remind us, you are new now.
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