one thing to think about, even if you let her sleep in your bed, things might not change because more than just the sleeping arrangement has changed. This is why I have never been big on kids living at home with parents, siblings, and in your case grandparents owning a dog because eventually they move out and often not into a situation that is best for the pet. In your case when you move out, you not only changed some of your established habits but you took her away from other people in her life that she has bonded with. Also you said you are in a townhouse do you have a yard now, did you have one before. All this affects the dog. I suspect that she was also not alone as much as when she lived with you at your parents house either. So this brings me to a suggestion that you might not like, if your parents and grandmother are willing and able to care for her it might be best for her to be back at their home. It sounds like your finance does not care for animals so that would probably help your relationship as well. Good luck hope you all can work it out |