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Originally Posted by Wallee  I just want to start by saying depression is VERY REAL. I lost my oldest son 3 weeks before his 18th birthday to suicide. The after affects and post traumatic effects will last with my youngest son and I forever. I, too have struggled with depression most of my life as it is strong in my family too. My youngest son made an attempt on his life 10 years after losing his only brother while he was away at University. He had never properly dealt with the loss of his brother nor the PTS from being only 15 and cutting his brother down and trying to perform Cpr.
Sadly, my ex (their father). Still believes it is not real and a person can snap out of it. Knowing what it's like being depressed at times I can attest that only meds and professional help gets one on the right track. |
Cindy, I am so sorry for the loss of your son and the awful struggles your family has endured... Suicide is not something any of us left behind can ever understand...knowing and believing that God makes us whole again and gives us eternal life in heaven is what makes me accept it....for a time we must do without those who have gone on, sadly we are often left with what they chose to leave behind...I'd like to believe that if they were not "sick" and knew what it would do to us that they would never have done it, I know they wouldn't, I wish you and your family peace and strength until you are all together again....you are a remarkable mother and I admire your strength.