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Originally Posted by Yorkiemom1

Articulated very well....thank you for having the acuity to envision the internal conflict some of us have, and then being able to express it so clearly. What often times is simply a sincere attempt to educate a poster, completely unspools the thread, especially if the poster is not looking for education on the subject, just wanting specific questions answered. The wonderful thing about this forum is that as long as adults maintain a sense of decorum, anyone can post their reply or their feelings on the subject, whatever they may be, whether the op approves of the message or not, again as long as the responses are respectful and are within the acceptable guidlines of YT. It is up to the poster to read and take away from responses, what they are interested in. Many of them do that with civility, while others, unfortunately, are offended and express their frustration and displeasure with YT. While "offending" responses may not help or impress a point appreciated by that particular poster, over time, there are multitudes of people, quietly "lurking" and reading and learning from any and all answers given.

Thanks for keeping at it on all fronts - information, advice and education with some good old-fashioned common sense thrown in.