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Originally Posted by Verbena  I have noticed some of the people that come here for "emergency" help never stay after. They come ask for help and then nothing. You do not know if they listened or followed advice. We do not even know if the pup lived. Sometimes I wish I can grab ahold of some and just shake them. I wish some would just use their brain. |
I think the whole point of this IS that people are coming here for emergency questions and they DO get treated like crap and DON'T feel as though they are getting help, only judged rudely, and they don't feel welcome to stay. They come here and SEE that there are wonderful, knowledgable Yorkie owners and breeders who CAN help them but then they get torn apart for asking what they came to ask. If the situation is past the point of change all we can do is help the outcome and educate so that the situation doesn't happen again.
This thread was started as a general reminder, NOT about one specific other thread (which is what it has become.) As to that thread, however, the decision has been made by the owner to continue the pregnancy and she is still here and she is still trying to gain knowledge and help to try for the best possible outcome. What help does it do to continue to berate her and her decision? She'll leave and not get the help and education she needs. How does that help the bitch and the pups? It doesn't. She understands that the majority here does not agree with her decision but she is still here. I feel that it is time to move forward and work on helping her through this current situation and to prevent reoccurance.
I'm still new here, you have no reason to listen to anything I have to say, but as an outsider looking in, this is what I've been seeing.