You are welcome to donate and only participate in the parts of YT you prefer, that's your prerogative. Also, when you donate - you can always PM me, JMueDog, or Admin and ask us to disable anything that you don't want as a result of being a donating member. For example, you get a bigger avatar etc - it's fine if you don't want that.
I'm glad to hear you've noticed how many loving/caring people are here, and especially that you've learned here and gotten wonderful advice. Of course, I'm also sorry to hear your disappointment in some of the members. Please always remember that the GOOD
far outweighs any bad here. I know that fact doesn't
always make it easier, but it helps with keeping things in perspective; and it helps with avoiding giving all of your emotions over to what you see as negative.
We try our best, admin/mods
and the members, to make YT a great place. Like in real life, there is a
huge variety of human beings here and of communication styles. We all have to try to tolerate the differences in each other, even when they make us feel like banging our heads against a brick wall. Every single one of us here encounters other members who don't do things the way we'd prefer. So, none of us have a pass on that feeling.
Also, feel free to report any posts that you think are breaking the rules that YT has in place. Those rules do strive to maintain some boundaries in the treatment of all members. I hope you post more so we can get to know you better. Even though some of your words were a bit harsh and a little out of line (which I thought you didn't like to see, in others), I still respect and appreciate your very honest opinion
.