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Originally Posted by ladyjane  Carmen, you asked for advice and when you do that you must realize that there will be some you are not ready for.
I personally don't tell others what they should do because I know from experience that most people learn their own way and we just have to let them do that. People should not give advice and then expect that the person is going to follow it. At least that is my thought. As for someone getting mad at you....so sad that they feel they must control another human being. Just pray for them.
As I suggested before, do for yourself what you would advise your best friend if she asked you. Just be good to Carmen because she deserves good.  |
great words of advice from a person I have a lot of respect for ! Not saying I don't love and respect all you now- because I really and truly do....
But my last words here... I have had many times when friends talked about bf or husbands and
a very wise person said to me..."never tell them what to do, because if they follow your advise and it goes wrong they will blame you". Geezzee... I don't know what to do with my own life at times so how could I tell you. BUT... as I was saying... I just want you to take care of YOU!!!! If YOU make yourself happy in YOUR skin the rest will work out. For some this would mean leaving, for others it would be staying. Anything good in life is work.