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Originally Posted by Carmeow  I don't care who gets mad at me for not immediately breaking up with him. I came here pointing out the negatives but it isn't the whole picture, and its not an accurate portrait of who he is. I have to admit that I have thought for a long time that I may be struggling with OCD. I've never admitted that, even to myself, that it may be pretty serious case of it. Old habits die hard I guess but you can change habits if you keep working at it. I think I'm very hard on him and he puts up with it. I love him for that reason. So I should love him for his flaws too. |
I truly hope you did not feel as if I was trying to get you to leave... All I wanted was you to have that sit down with him and maybe even as childish as it might sound write out even a chore list.. You do this this this and I will do this this this... I just want you to make sure that he realizes how lucky he is to have you and starts making an effort to prove he knows just how lucky he is
