Relationships should absolutely be 50/50. Maybe 55/45, but definitely not 80/20 and god forbid 90/10. If it's not, move on to the next guy. If I was with a guy that didn't believe that and wanted a mother instead of a girlfriend, I was out of there regardless of how long we were together. I'd rather spend my time with someone who cherishes me and my company and not my slaving for him.
These kinds of relationships are partnerships. Show me a successful partner business that runs on 80/20. Yes, businesses and relationships are similar. You don't "run" a relationship like a business but you do have compromises and shared goals.
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