I'm not sure why you would want him. I mean seriously, he sounds like a spoiled little boy not a grown man ready to settle down and build a life with. I don't know why we settle as women for things like this. You are still very young but I think if you continue settling for this kind of life, you won't be very happy in the long run. Of course, there must be a part of you who settles for this for some reason. Why do you think that you are doing that? Do you think you can't do better? Are you hoping he'll change? Do you like the feeling of being the adult in the relationship? Are you repeating your parents relationship growing up? I think that's what you really need to work on because we really can't change other people, only ourselves. I wish you luck whatever your choose to do.... |