[rubymoon2072]

Originally Posted by Verbena

I can understand how he is feeling. I have been there. I have damage to my spine, neck, shoulder, knees. How long has he been hurt? Mine is 14.5 years. I was a very active person. Working 60-80 work weeks, Yoga, working out, dancing, riding a motorcycle, volleyball, etc. then came to a screeching halt. The pain, the meds, the loss of self worth. I total get it.

yes exactly and it is not something i can really help him with to a certain point i can encourage but after that its beyond me. its been 11 years but just only a year...this month last year is when the doctor informed us he could never return to work or do the things he once did...he had his third surgery in nov of 11 and we expected a full recovery so it was a shock.