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Originally Posted by rubymoon2072  originally a couple of crushed discs....when we first moved to nh while he was chopping wood. it was the middle of winter and he wanted to keep us warmer than the oil heat was doing. hes had three back surgeries total..and the last one did not fix what it was supposed to. the first surgeon wasnt really a good one and it sorta went downhill from there. he has always pushed through though and gone to work. even if he had to suffer but now hes been listed as disabled and stays home with the kids all day. he feels like a loser staying home...so that also doesnt help with our mental fight. he hasnt yet accepted this is the way things are. |
I can understand how he is feeling. I have been there. I have damage to my spine, neck, shoulder, knees. How long has he been hurt? Mine is 14.5 years. I was a very active person. Working 60-80 work weeks, Yoga, working out, dancing, riding a motorcycle, volleyball, etc. then came to a screeching halt. The pain, the meds, the loss of self worth. I total get it.