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Originally Posted by carmen in nj  I agree with the post too, BUT I feel that if advise is not given the only one to suffer is the dam and the puppies, NOT the human, I am tired too of people attacking the ignorant BYB,once the deed is done is NOT going back but help with forward... if my advise saves One dam from suffering , dying or killing her litter then my day is a good one.. FREE advise can save a life and teach a lesson..
just my .02 cents..I know this is not the popular belive here but is mine..
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I bet if we did a poll most folks would agree with you as well. No point in attacking the BYBer.
How-ever in some cases folks just don't see their response as an "attack" one. Other folks just don't care enough to temper their passion, so involved and commited to get "their" message out, that good manners are the least of their concerns. Never mind simple kindness.
For the most part on most days I too agree that my advise can save a struggling dam or puppy; my problem is what then? Will this person just go away and continue on their merry road of breeding inappropriately and with too little knowledge and no health testing in place? Am I contributing to the BYB problem? That one is a sobering thought for me.
I can count on the fingers of one hand, those folks who actually came here to research about breeding prior to doing it. I lost count ages ago of the other folks.