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Originally Posted by jesscruz isn't it sad how much infedelity happens in the military? so sad.. |
yup and it does give us a bad name. Esspecially the wives. All of it happening around me gave my husband and I a hard time. A deployment is hard enough and then hearing other people say "EVERYONE does it." I would get mad if my husband went drinking at ports when I was home everynight taking care of the baby. I told him there are bars anywhere and to go sight seeing and he better come home with pictures. But then all of the guys wanted to go out drinking. My husband told me that he saw one of his friends cheating on his wife. (I knew him and his wife too, she had a daughter and I think was pregnant) My husband was like, "What the hell are you doing man?" and the guy was like "Just having fun and don't tell."
But the wives do it too. Once on a pier we were watching the ship leave for it's 6 month deployment. I overheard some other wives on the pier say, "So, are you coming with me to go clubbing and find some hotties?" I didn't say anything, but the ship wasn't even out of view yet!