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cheryl000 · 01-31-2006, 06:59 PM

Okay... Here are my thoughts. Being prior military (navy) myself I have seen alot of cases of infidelity. Adultry isn't specifically covered in the UCMJ. BUT it does fall under the catch-all article 134. Adultry is VERY hard to prove and if it is, it basically is something that had a negitive impact on the command.

http://usmilitary.about.com/od/justi...a/adultery.htm
During a deployment on my husband's ship a guy made a video of himself and a married woman having sex in engineering on the ship on a bet. Rumors of the video went around and reached the upper chain of command. His first class told him to open his locker and there was the video. His first class had to watch it with the chief, which was very awkward. Anyways, they both went to mast where she FINALLY found out about the video. They made her call her husband (they have 2 kids at home) and tell him about what happened. They both lost rank and she lost her school and now instead of being a "nurse" in the navy now she chips paint.
Infidelity happens A LOT in the Navy. Most people don't trust each other. Some even have an agreement about what happens underway stays underway. I guess they can be considered swingers. They probably know about it and she's doing the same thing.
I had the same thing happen to me. My husband had a couple of friends who I really hated, but I dealt with them for him. I HATE the man because I tried to call my husband to tell him I was pregnant and the guy lied and said that my husband was out clubbing and hung up on me. That entire night I was crying because I couldn't get a hold of my husband. I will NEVER forget that. Anyways, the guy cheated on his wife religiously. It was horrible. He would bring the women over to my house and they would watch tv. It made me sick. The first time he made a motion on his ring finger and shook his head which was telling me "don't mention I'm married." Then when I was 8 months pregnant we went to McDonalds because we were waiting for my husband to get off of work. Then he told me that he doesn't like being seen with me because the hot girls will think that he's the father of the baby! I was like "YOU ARE MARRIED! You shouldn't be worried about ME messing up your game!"
Anyways, I wasn't that crazy about his wife either. But she came over after they had gotten divorced about a year later, they kept accusing each other of cheating, and she said that she knew he was. She straight up asked me if I knew anything. So I sung like a bird and it felt so good to get that off of my chest. I told her that I would have told her a LONG time ago but I didn't want to get involved. She was pretty cool about it and she was happy to at least hear how much of an A$$ he was so she made the right choice. Anyways, unless you're approached I wouldn't say anything. I know it's hard not to. Just be glad you're not in a relationship like that

01-31-2006, 06:59 PM	#55
cheryl000 YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: none Posts: 1,495	Okay... Here are my thoughts. Being prior military (navy) myself I have seen alot of cases of infidelity. Adultry isn't specifically covered in the UCMJ. BUT it does fall under the catch-all article 134. Adultry is VERY hard to prove and if it is, it basically is something that had a negitive impact on the command. http://usmilitary.about.com/od/justi...a/adultery.htm During a deployment on my husband's ship a guy made a video of himself and a married woman having sex in engineering on the ship on a bet. Rumors of the video went around and reached the upper chain of command. His first class told him to open his locker and there was the video. His first class had to watch it with the chief, which was very awkward. Anyways, they both went to mast where she FINALLY found out about the video. They made her call her husband (they have 2 kids at home) and tell him about what happened. They both lost rank and she lost her school and now instead of being a "nurse" in the navy now she chips paint. Infidelity happens A LOT in the Navy. Most people don't trust each other. Some even have an agreement about what happens underway stays underway. I guess they can be considered swingers. They probably know about it and she's doing the same thing. I had the same thing happen to me. My husband had a couple of friends who I really hated, but I dealt with them for him. I HATE the man because I tried to call my husband to tell him I was pregnant and the guy lied and said that my husband was out clubbing and hung up on me. That entire night I was crying because I couldn't get a hold of my husband. I will NEVER forget that. Anyways, the guy cheated on his wife religiously. It was horrible. He would bring the women over to my house and they would watch tv. It made me sick. The first time he made a motion on his ring finger and shook his head which was telling me "don't mention I'm married." Then when I was 8 months pregnant we went to McDonalds because we were waiting for my husband to get off of work. Then he told me that he doesn't like being seen with me because the hot girls will think that he's the father of the baby! I was like "YOU ARE MARRIED! You shouldn't be worried about ME messing up your game!" Anyways, I wasn't that crazy about his wife either. But she came over after they had gotten divorced about a year later, they kept accusing each other of cheating, and she said that she knew he was. She straight up asked me if I knew anything. So I sung like a bird and it felt so good to get that off of my chest. I told her that I would have told her a LONG time ago but I didn't want to get involved. She was pretty cool about it and she was happy to at least hear how much of an A$$ he was so she made the right choice. Anyways, unless you're approached I wouldn't say anything. I know it's hard not to. Just be glad you're not in a relationship like that Last edited by cheryl000; 01-31-2006 at 07:02 PM.