My Gracie has never slept in bed with me at night, she is almost 2 years old. She has always slept in a playpen right by my bed. I tried 2 x's to let her sleep with me and she thought it was an invitation to play, after 2 hours I was ready for sleep so I put her in her Pen and she want right to sleep. I won't even let my 8 month old daughter sleep with me, I have always been scared that I will roll over on them or they will fall out of the bed.
I would never forgive myself if something happened to them. Gracie does nap with me on the couch and when I was pregant, she slept on my big belly
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