I am so terribly sorry! I have a granddaughter that age & I know how devistated she would be ... especially knowing that she had been cautioned! My heart breaks for her!
How is your daughter's baby? Keep up the good work giving advise/tips! You never know when they are paying attention .... at least that's how mine were!
We too have a home near Birmingham .... Anniston [E. Central AL]! We don't get down there but a few times a year.