yjank you everyone for all the support and its so nice to have someone to turn to in a time of need or pleasure, or a need to argue(the best of us love a good squabble to keep us young) lol but yet even when us new ones come on you are there to cheer us on so i thank you, i am sleeping next to the crate for the next few nights so don't mind me if i am cranky with a sore back
its worth it all in the end, so far tonight the other two seem to be thriving, so far so good! again thank you from all my little gems!