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Originally Posted by LunasMomma  Oh my gosh I feel so badly for your situation  I'd hold firm on leaving your babies, though, especially your little AAI girl.
It might be time to get a power of attorney for his finances, too. If he's schmoozing up women, one of them could scam him out of all of his money  There are SO MANY bad bad women out there just looking for an opportunity to fleece an old gentleman.
Perhaps there are YT'ers in your area that would be willing to dogsit. You'd at least know that your babies would be in good hands.
Hugs to you!!! |
Thank you so much!!!. Many women would like to be taken care of by him, financially and whatever other way they think he can care for them. He's a braggart, and feeds them lots of baloney. And yes, he is and can be a charmer. He's good with words. Yes, you are right, there are a number of woman who he befriended, some of them much much younger women, like the hygienist at his dentist, that tell him all their troubles and tell him how much in debt they are and what a jerk their ex husband is. Does this seem appropriate to you? A dental hygienist confiding personal information like that to a man 90 years old? I mean, am I crazy, or what? He says she is just a friend, but before he lost his cell phone, he used to talk to her outside in the garage, hiding away from me. It's all too crazy. The other day he was walking across the living room and some BM fell out of his shorts onto the floor. He wasn't even aware of it. It happened only once, but i wonder if this is the beginning of incontinence. There is so much to worry about.